reality

Reality:

“We deny to believe in reality for a momentary happiness”

Sometimes it’s really hard to believe the reality, what’s actually happening around us. Even though we are practical enough to judge a circumstance we tend to deny it because it may hurt us. Denying something which is real may have an adverse effect on a person and as well as people around him/her. People around such person find it difficult to make him/her understand about reality. People who are “highly “imaginative I mean who have their own perception on certain things which has not been accepted by others, will find it difficult in accepting things as they are.(I have mentioned highly in double codes because all the people who are imaginative are not like this only few). In some aspects creativity decreases the purity of reality. The degree in which a person is creative or imaginative matters a lot!

In some situations to accept the reality one has be bold and brave enough because the society creeps into the situation. This makes an ever lasting impact on a person. We tend to believe as reality only the things we see and experience. There are many things that are unseen and not experienced by many people. In such things it’s very difficult to verify reality. It’ll be so strange that one starts giving different names for it. Accepting certain things as they are is bit difficult and one has to have conflict within him/her. By denying some reality one can feel unexplainable happiness which he/she could have not experienced by accepting it. The thinking should be in practical way and the approach towards it should be in creative way. This’ll surly enhances the efficiency in a person.

The definition for few aspects changes as we grow. Some people who are elder or younger than us will have different definition for the same aspect, and for this we popularly call as “generation gap”. There is no unanimity among the people about the existence of generation gap. Most of the conflicts which happen between the parents and children are because of existence of generation gap. The perspective about the reality differs between parents and children. In such situation there’ll be no proper judgment about reality. Both will have different point of view on reality. When there is mutual agreement or mutual understanding between them, than the term “generation gap” doesn’t exist.

Some people have a tendency of talking with non-living things. Sometimes this looks like a childish act or we do appreciate for their creativity. By this the person will not be able to know the point of view of others. One can tell about certain aspect but can’t share things with them. This’ll surely help a person to bring out his emotion from his/her heart but the satisfaction which he gains from doing it will not last for long. The person becomes more dependent on the object. The person should know the limit for his/her dependency. In such aspects the value for reality decreases. “Perceiving the thing as it is and later changing it according to one’s own mentality is better than perceiving the thing according to one’s own mentality”. It makes a difference.